Eleven days ago at the 74th annual Golden Globe Awards, actress Lola Kirke walked the red carpet in a stunning baby pink Andrew Gn gown… and grown-out armpit hair.
And all the headlines read something like: Armpit hair?! What a statement. Which is kind of funny, the idea that a couple centimeters of natural body hair were suddenly the focal point of her look.
Kirke was both criticized and commended. A Vogue article said she “expressed a bold message when it came to her own body—taking the opportunity to shirk conventional Hollywood norms.” Yes, Vogue. Amen to shirking those norms.
Body hair isn’t something that’s often talked about, probably because it isn’t supposed to exist on women. We are conditioned to shave it off, all of it, so that when we finally emerge from the bathroom we have become these smooth, hairless versions of ourselves. Which isn’t the worst thing in the world, but it’s weird to think that we work to meticulously remove something that grows on our bodies naturally.
A lot of visible body hair on women is “gross,” but the same hair exists on men and it isn’t seen that way.
In the following feature for the StyleLikeU movement, artist, photographer and feminist inspiration, Petra Collins, said, “Not shaving was kind of the first step towards accepting my body as it was.” She talked about how, “in the beginning it was weird and hard,” but now she doesn’t give her body hair a second thought because it’s just a part of who she is.
“Why do I buy things every day to get rid of something that my body is just trying to grow?” —Petra Collins
I personally like to have my legs shaved and armpits waxed… but sometimes it gets to be too much. Then I get to the beach and hesitate for a second before taking my pants and shirt off because “agh my ‘pits and legs are hairy beasts what will the people think??” But I shouldn’t care what the people think. The people will always have something to say; when it comes to our bodies the only opinions that truly matter are our own.
Of course, whether you choose to get rid of your body hair or not is a matter of personal preference. But the choice should not be reliant on what society says you should look like; it should be about what makes you feel the most like yourself, the most beautiful.